Alexigenderqueer Flag

Colour meanings: The blues are taken from this alexithymia pride flag. The blues represent alexithymia and the inability to describe the gender/orientation; the black stripe represents the alexithymia “obscuring” or “hiding” your actual gender/orientation from you; the pinks are the inverse of the blues and represent your actual gender/orientation.

Alexigender Flag

Colour meanings: The blues are taken from this alexithymia pride flag. The blues represent alexithymia and the inability to describe the gender/orientation; the black stripe represents the alexithymia “obscuring” or “hiding” your actual gender/orientation from you; the pinks are the inverse of the blues and represent your actual gender/orientation.

Alexigender is a neurogender defined as "a term for when you are unable to describe your gender/orientation due to neurodivergency - you cannot put it into words. You may have a vague idea of what your gender/orientation is or could be; if so it can be used as alexigenderqueer or alexipan, for example. Alexigender/alexi- can be used in combination with another identity, or it can be a stand-alone.
Based off alexithymia, a condition/symptom where a person has difficulty describing their emotions. For use by people who have alexithymia, which may be part of another disorder such as autism, schizo-spectrum disorders, or borderline personality disorder. See also these similar genders, Gendervauge, & Nesciogender."¹

History of the term

Alexigender was coined on October 6, 2019 by tumblr user xeno-aligned on their sideblog, neurogender. The flag was created at the same time.²

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Autigender Flag

Autigender (or Auti(s)gender/Autisgender) is a neurogender defined as "autism as part or whole of gender identity; a gender that can only be understood in context of being autistic.
note: only to be used by autistics."¹

History of the term

Autigender was coined on or before Aug 25th, 2014 by tumblr users autismgender and esperancegirl via MOGAI-Archive.² The flag was created by pride-flags-for-us and posted on August 22, 2015 by Pride-Flags on Deviant-Art.³

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Autigender

Autism is not just part of me, it’s the only thing I am, and though I am self-diagnosed, you could never understand. Only fake autistic people tell me that I’m wrong— the real ones are all autigender and they’ll accept it before long.

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Autistisexual Flag

Autistisexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "autistic people who are attracted sexually or romantically to other autistic people. This would be for the use of autistic people"¹

History of the term

Autistisexual was coined on August 28, 2018 by tumblr user mischief-wolf-and-autism via beyond-mogai-pride-flags. The flag was created at the same time.²

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Diffsexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "the impossibility or extreme difficulty to engage in sexual/sensual/romantic activities due to one’s sensory issues (Note: Only to be used by autistic people)"¹

History of the term

Diffsexual was coined before July 2, 2018 by unknown.² There is no flag.

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Diffsexual

I’m sorry, I cannot love you, no, it’s not you, it’s me– for I have trouble processing all things sensory. Though SPD doesn’t effect love– emotional control at most– I sure as hell don’t know that, for I’m self-diagnosed.

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Echopelusexual Flag

Echopelusexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "when you only feel attraction to stuffed animals that you see as extensions of yourself/that you are an extension of them due to neurodivergence, namely difficulty in expressing empathy, or empathy deficits, such as in NPD/ASPD/Autism and extreme attachment and desire to be engulfed by a depended/favourite toy, such as in BPD/DPD. Anyone neurodivergent person with this symptom can use it, though.
An objectum orientation that is a combination of Echo- and Pelu-."¹

History of the term

Echopelusexual was coined on December 12, 2018 by tumblr user xeno-aligned. The flag was created at the same time.²

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Echosexual Flag

Echosexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "when you only feel attraction to people that you see as extensions of yourself/that you are an extension of them due to neurodivergence, namely difficulty in expressing empathy, or empathy deficits, such as in NPD/ASPD/Autism and extreme attachment and desire to be engulfed by a depended/favorite person, such as in BPD/DPD.
Anyone neurodivergent person with this symptom can use it, though."¹

History of the term

Echosexual was coined on or before April 22, 2016 by tumblr user pastelmemer. The flag, also by pastelmemer, was posted by Pride-Flags on deviantart at that time..²

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Echosexual

I date folks like me begrudgingly because I’m not flexible enough to suck on my own penis, God, my life is tough.

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Faegender Flag 3

Color meanings: The 4 colored stripes are representing the seasons. And the black stripe(s) represent the night sky with the moon.

Faegender Flag 2

Faegender Flag 1

Faegender (or Faeori) is a mythologender defined as "when an individual’s gender changes with the seasons, equinoxes, and moon phases."¹ It was later updated to "a gender related to The Fae — a gender that changes with the seasons, equinoxes, and moon phases, and/or a neurogender related to the Changeling myth (which is about autistic people)”²
Not to be confused with Genderfae or Faygender.

History of the term

Faegender was coined on or before October 28, 2014 by anonymous via MOGAI-Archive.³ The flags were created on September 9, 2015⁴ and October 16, 2015 [⁵][⁶] by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.

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Faegender

My gender isn’t genderfae, don’t erase me, fucking scum! It’s not faygender, either– are you fucking dumb? My gender changes with the moon, the weather, and the seasons– it’s not my fault you can’t keep track for some stupid reason.

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Fasciflux Flag

Fasciflux is a neurogender defined as "a gender that fluctuates or is fluid based on an autistic person’s special interest"¹

History of the term

Fasciflux was coined on February 3, 2019 by tumblr user mogai-guy. The flag was created at the same time.²

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Fascigender Flag

Fascigender is a neurogender defined as "a gender experience largely related to a special interest; note: only for the use of autistic folk."¹

History of the term

Fascigender was coined on or before August 23, 2014 by unknown via MOGAI-Archive.² The flag was created on or before August 22, 2015 by pride-flags-for-us. It was posted on that date by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.³

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Fascigender

Hello, I am autistic, and that’s all you need to know before my name or age or grade, before my favorite show. I need for you to hear this from me, for it’ll make me most morose if you hear it first from someone else who mocks the self-diagnosed.

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Focigender Flag

Focigender is a neurogender defined as "a gender identity that is influenced by or shifts with your hyperfixations/obsessions…It was primarily made with ADHD and BPD in mind but it’s free to be used by any neurodivergent person (including self-dxed) who experiences a similar strong focus on things. This includes autistic special interests and also multiply-diagnosed, undiagnosed and questioning people!"¹

History of the term

Focigender was coined on February 15, 2018 by tumblr user crystalmoth. The flag was created at the same time.²

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Focigender

I’m crazy into horses; ponies and centaurs, too, I know everything about horse-care: how to groom and feed and shoe. My gender reflects my passion, it gallops through my heart; But don’t feed it moldy hay, or it will get the sharts.

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Genderstim Flag

Genderstim is a neurogender defined as "for when your gender is *wiggles and bounces happily*"¹

History of the term

Genderstim was coined on September 30, 2019 by tumblr user psychoticnln (aka diamourloving/hauntedmlm). The flag was created at the same time.²

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Honeygender Flag 2

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Honeygender is a neurogender (boy / girl) is defined as "a gender that feels warm and soft, like a blanket, your favorite jacket, or your childhood home, and is childlike in nature. This gender feels comfort in the safety of trusting others and having the innocence of a little kid, with vague hints of masculinity/femininity/androgyny.
This gender is related to hoodiegender and kidcoric, but combining the terms into one. Made for anyone, but coined with trauma victims and people with low functioning autism in mind."¹
There is another coining of the term which defines it as "a gender that feels slow and warm, but steady and sweet at the same time. It is also protective and sheltering.”²

History of the term

Honeygender was coined on July 19, 2019 by tumblr user venturgender. The flag was created at the same time.³

It is unclear when the second definition was created, or by whom, but it was before August 14, 2019. The second flag was likely created at the same time.⁴

See Also

• All Child-Related MOGAI Terms
• All Trauma-Related MOGAI Terms
• All Autism-Related MOGAI Terms
• All Honey-Related MOGAI Terms
• All Sweet-Related MOGAI Terms

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