All Borderline Personality Disorder-Related MOGAI Terms
Alexigender

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Colour meanings: The blues are taken from this alexithymia pride flag. The blues represent alexithymia and the inability to describe the gender/orientation; the black stripe represents the alexithymia “obscuring” or “hiding” your actual gender/orientation from you; the pinks are the inverse of the blues and represent your actual gender/orientation.

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Colour meanings: The blues are taken from this alexithymia pride flag. The blues represent alexithymia and the inability to describe the gender/orientation; the black stripe represents the alexithymia “obscuring” or “hiding” your actual gender/orientation from you; the pinks are the inverse of the blues and represent your actual gender/orientation.
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Alexigender is a neurogender defined as "a term for when you are unable to describe your gender/orientation due to neurodivergency - you cannot put it into words. You may have a vague idea of what your gender/orientation is or could be; if so it can be used as alexigenderqueer or alexipan, for example. Alexigender/alexi- can be used in combination with another identity, or it can be a stand-alone.
Based off alexithymia, a condition/symptom where a person has difficulty describing their emotions. For use by people who have alexithymia, which may be part of another disorder such as autism, schizo-spectrum disorders, or borderline personality disorder. See also these similar genders, Gendervauge, & Nesciogender."1

History of the term

Alexigender was coined on October 6, 2019 by tumblr user xeno-aligned on their sideblog, neurogender. The flag was created at the same time.2

Bordergender

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Bordergender (or borderfluid) is a neurogender defined as "a fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on ones identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender we keep questioning because we keep second guessing our sense of selves and, consequentially, our sense of gender.
Can be combined with relevant genders.1"

History of the term

Bordergender was coined on or before December 31, 20142 by tumblr user izayaorihahaha3 (later antiqueapple on deviantart4). The flags were created before August 17, 2015, the originals by izayaorihahaha and edited versions by pastelmemer, aka Pride-Flags on Deviant-Art.[5][6][7][8]

The coiner, sensibly, no longer approves of the term and hopes that nobody uses it.

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Borderix

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Borderix is a neurogender defined as "a gender relating to borderline personality disorder [ bpd ] in some way - this is a gender that feels stronger when the individual has an fp and feels almost nonexistent when without one.
this is, obviously, a gender that can only be reclaimed by people with bpd.

the coiner of this term has bpd."1

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History of the term

Borderix was coined on March 3, 2019 by tumblr user nebularomantic. The flag was created at the same time.2

Bordersexual

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Bordersexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "an aro/ace spectrum orientation in which the individual cannot distinguish between types of attraction due to symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder (ex. feeling strong attachment to platonic friends that can be confused as romantic, personal identity instability, etc.)"1

History of the term

Bordersexual was coined before August 31, 2016 by pastelmemer via MOGAI-Archive.2 The flag was created on March 18, 2017 by Honorary Mod Loki on the Pride-Flags Deviantart .3

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I’ve a proven issue
that I don’t want to fix,
so I’ll use this MOGAI title
to make folks feel like pricks

when they tell me that my meds
might make me feel more stable–
I just tell them that they’re bigots
and that mine is a healthy label.

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BPDemi

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BPDemi is a neurosexuality defined as "a term for borderline demisexuals/demiromantics who don’t have the lack of possibility of attraction at first when it’s their fp."1

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History of the term

BPDemi was coined on May 16, 2019 by tumblr user yveltal-yeets-nasties. The flag was created at the same time by tumblr user nebularomantic.2

Echopelusexual

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Echopelusexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "when you only feel attraction to stuffed animals that you see as extensions of yourself/that you are an extension of them due to neurodivergence, namely difficulty in expressing empathy, or empathy deficits, such as in NPD/ASPD/Autism and extreme attachment and desire to be engulfed by a depended/favourite toy, such as in BPD/DPD. Anyone neurodivergent person with this symptom can use it, though.
An objectum orientation that is a combination of Echo- and Pelu-."1

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History of the term

Echopelusexual was coined on December 12, 2018 by tumblr user xeno-aligned. The flag was created at the same time.2

Echosexual

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Echosexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "when you only feel attraction to people that you see as extensions of yourself/that you are an extension of them due to neurodivergence, namely difficulty in expressing empathy, or empathy deficits, such as in NPD/ASPD/Autism and extreme attachment and desire to be engulfed by a depended/favorite person, such as in BPD/DPD.
Anyone neurodivergent person with this symptom can use it, though."1

History of the term

Echosexual was coined on or before April 22, 2016 by tumblr user pastelmemer. The flag, also by pastelmemer, was posted by Pride-Flags on deviantart at that time..2

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I date folks like me begrudgingly
because I’m not flexible enough
to suck on my own penis,
God, my life is tough.

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Exagender

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Exagender is a neurogender defined as a "gender that is defined/influenced by whether they believe people will approve of it or not; usually with splitting and is in contrast with actual experience of gender (borderline only)."1

History of the term

Exagender was coined on or before November 12, 20142 by tumblr user cactusprincex.3 The flags were created on January 19, 20184 by anonymous via Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes.5

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I seek MOGAI’s approval
because I’ve got BPD;
they suggested that this gender
might be right for me.

For although I feel I’m cis,
few have MOGAI anoint them
with a custom gender and
I’d hate to disappoint them.

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Focigender

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Focigender is a neurogender defined as "a gender identity that is influenced by or shifts with your hyperfixations/obsessions…It was primarily made with ADHD and BPD in mind but it’s free to be used by any neurodivergent person (including self-dxed) who experiences a similar strong focus on things. This includes autistic special interests and also multiply-diagnosed, undiagnosed and questioning people!"1

History of the term

Focigender was coined on February 15, 2018 by tumblr user crystalmoth. The flag was created at the same time.2

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I’m crazy into horses;
ponies and centaurs, too,
I know everything about horse-care:
how to groom and feed and shoe.

My gender reflects my passion,
it gallops through my heart;
But don’t feed it moldy hay,
or it will get the sharts.

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Glutinfernal

Glutinfernal is a mythologender defined as "when obsessive-compulsive behaviors (such as hoarding) or a desire to obtain objects (such as kleptomania) creates an identity surrounding a deep desire to keep objects, and a deep fear to lose them. In those with borderline personality disorder, this can also translate as a deep desire to keep people, and a deep fear to lose them. It can also occur in those with delusions of death and loss, or those who believe that they will always be abandoned due to trauma. Also inherent is an alignment with dark spirituality, dark copinglink identities, and hell. This element also involves a fluidity between satisfaction and desperation; between higher and lower vibrational energies; and a combination of manifestation and binding magick.1

It is based on the Deadly Sin of gluttony.2

See Also:
Envifernal (Envy)
Greedinfernal (Greed)
Lustinfernal (Lust)
Pridinfernal (Pride)
Slothinfernal (Sloth)
Wrathinfernal (Wrath)

History of the term

Glutinfernal was coined on or before July 24, 2018 in a now-deleted post by Sapphire Crimson-Claw. There is no flag.3

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I keep people in my basement,
it’s just a quirky thing I do;
if you had my gender,
you’d keep people, too.

I don’t see the issue with
linking gender and OCD
to my fucked-up fantasies
about committing felonies.

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Rencgender

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Yes, the static on the three stripes is intentional.

Rencgender is a neurogender defined as "a gender that confuses and infuriates the person whose gender it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits…exclusive to people with BPD."1

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History of the term

Rencgender was coined on November 9, 2018 by tumblr user mogaiheaven. The flag was created at the same time.2

Rencsexual

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The static is intentional

Rencsexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "an orientation that confuses and infuriates the person whose orientation it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits…exclusive to people with BPD"1
See Also: Rencgender

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History of the term

Rencsexual was coined on November 9, 2018 by tumblr user mogaiheaven (aka genderplaylist). The flag was created at the same time.2

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