All Trauma-Related MOGAI Terms
Aclarus

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Aclarus is a neurogender defined as "the inability to distinguish ones gender due to trauma (any type: emotional, sexual, mental, physical etc) and can only be used by trauma survivors. this is not a gender, only a way to describe the inability to directly pin down what your true gender is.
from the Latin word Clarus which means clear and the prefix A- to imply absence"1

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History of the term

Aclarus was coined on October 8, 2018 by tumblr user bfpd. The flag was created at the same time.2

Acosexual

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Color meanings: The red represents sexuality, the black represents why you cannot be involved in sexual things (hence the cross) and the pink shows the possibility of less sexual attraction (that is still there ) and the red outline shows that full attraction may still remain.

Acosexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is an esmosexuality defined as "experiencing attraction that one wants to act on, but at the same time having a strong aversion to engaging in it due to bad experiences, apprehension, or other misgivings about being involved in romantic relationships or sexual activity, etc."1

History of the term

Acosexual was coined before August 30, 2015 by pastelmemer. The first flag, by tumblr user rythian-exe, was posted on that date by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.2 The second flag was created on or before September 9, 2015 by unknown and posted on that date by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.3 The rest of the flags were created on July 1, 2018 by Fy on Beyond-Mogai-Pride-Flags.4

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Acosexual
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My sexuality is really
the symptoms of past trauma,
but if you point that out to me,
I’ll start a ton of drama.

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Agitaromantic

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Agitaromantic (/-sexual/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "a romantic orientation revolving around feeling romantic attraction, but due to trauma involving a past break-up, the user is terrified of entering a relationship.
this romantic orientation is only reclaimable by trauma survivors. do not use this/identify with this if you do not have trauma relating to a relationship’s break-up."1

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History of the term

Agitaromantic was coined on December 13, 2018 by tumblr user nebularomantic. The flag was created at the same time.2

Angreprobic

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The yellows represent the strength that the gender once held, the dark grey showing the sudden fall into darkness and hurt, and the lighter greys represent recovery and healing!

Angreprobic is a neurogender defined as "a gender that feels like it was once something holy, strong, and powerful, but collapsed and fell into darkness due to trauma or stress. May or may not hold religious tones! It can never grow back to its former glory, but it can return to some minor strength.
Exclusive to people with PTSD/anxiety/similar, but also moreso centered towards people with such that use religion as a coping mechanism (NOT as a reason to attack/hurt/hate other people)! The word comes from the Latin words “angelus” (angel) and “reprobi” (fallen)."1

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History of the term

Angreprobic was coined on April 27, 2019 by tumblr user bey-your-self. The flag was created at the same time.2

Byumasexual

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The colors were based on the ideas of “trauma”, “{re}birth”, and “sexuality”.

Byumasexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "a sexual orientation term for those who experienced some kind of trauma during the “awakening” of their sexual attractoin/orientation (for example: when one first starts to date or gets curious about their own sexual orientation). Due to this trauma, the concept or idea of “sexual attraction” is a very confusing subject to them. These individuals might have a basic idea of their orientation (”I know I am not straight” or “I know I am not gay”) but beyond that, it is a mystery. People who identify as Byumasexual might have a history of “cycling” through different sexual orientation terms, attempting to find a term that they feel comfortable with (the “light bulb moment”).
This term is a more specific version of unthenalsexual. This term is NOT an excuse to not see professional help if you’re experiencing negative physical and/or mental health symptoms. If this is negatively interferring [sic] with your day-to-tday life, please seek out the proper professional.
Questioning is not a term these people feel comfortable with. One reason could be that it feels too “superficial”. Another reason could be that they feel like questioning is a “transitioning” term.
Byumasexual could easily be connected to caedosexual (believing trauma made you no longer experience sexual attraction), implasexual (Someone who feels they are never quite sure of their sexual orientation due to self doubt or anxiety), or pomosexual (believing there is no current term within the LGBT/MOGAI community that fits you, but there might be in the future).
This term was created by combining a greek word with an old norse word. It’s pronounced “bee-you-ma-sexual.””1

History of the term

Byumasexual was coined on February 6, 2018 by Vasilisa on Beyond-Mogai-Pride-Flags. The flag was created at the same time.2

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My first date ended poorly–
my date refused to pay,
and that trauma haunts me
to this very day.

Since I was cut so deeply,
my confidence is shaken–
I think a MOGAI term might help me,
but I am quite mistaken

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Caedgender

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Caedgender (or Caedogender, Caedagender) is a neurogender defined as "a gender which has been “cut away” by a traumatic event. A gender that was once felt but has been damaged or lost due to trauma."1

FOR TRAUMA SURVIVORS/PTSD SUFFERERS ONLY. from the latin "caedo" meaning "to cut"

History of the term

Caedgender (or Caedogender, Caedagender) was coined on or before November 7, 2014 by unknown via MOGAI-Archive.2 The flags were posted on September 4, 2015 by Pride-Flags on Deviantart. [3] [4][5]

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I once was startled badly
while in an evening gown
and, since then, my female-ness
has been nowhere to be found.

Yes, I’ve suffered a deep trauma
I’ve got severe PTSD
because my date that fateful night
shouted “BOO!” at me.

The wounds from this may never heal,
My gender may be stripped away
so I’m now caedagender
(which is kinda hard to say).

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Caedsexual

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Color meanings: Fading colors representing loss of attraction, as well as white, gray, and black which are associated with aspec flags.

Caedsexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "a feeling that one was previously able to experience a particular kind of attraction, but that ability was lost due to trauma or other negative events."1

Alternate term: Caedosexual

History of the term

Caedsexual was coined on or before January 29, 2015 by unknown via MOGAI-Archive.2 The flags were created on October 3, 2015 [3][4][5] and June 26, 2016[6] by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.

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Once I could feel love,
but I can’t now due to trauma–
more theraputic than seeking help
is causing MOGAI discourse drama.

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Decredogender

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Decredogender is a neurogender defined as "a gender influenced by trauma from gaslighting that makes you constantly question it but it still exists."1

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History of the term

Decredogender was coined on February 3, 2019 by tumblr user mogai-guy. The flag was created at the same time.2

Destresexual

Destresexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "someone who has experienced trauma and is only sexually attracted to others when not triggered. Usually with sexual assault related trauma but doesn’t have to be.
Comes from the old French word “destrecier” meaning distress.
Could be considered on the ace spectrum"1

History of the term

Destresexual was coined on February 16, 2017 by tumblr user quinnissoqueer.2 There is no flag.

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Destresexual
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I’m triggered by most everything
from goldfish to a Southern drawl;
given this, it is a wonder that
I ever get laid at all.

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Dolorsexual

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Flag meanings: Black and grey represent feeling pain, white — lack of attraction

Dolorsexual is an esmosexuality defined as defined as "feeling pain when you experience attraction. From Latin «dolor» meaning «pain»."1

History of the term

Dolorsexual was coined on or before February 3, 2018 by MarcusDeputat on Deviantart. The flag was created on that date by Pride-Flags and MarcusDeputat on Deviantart.2

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Dolorsexual
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Attraction is a trial for me,
and it has a grim prognosis:
every time I wanna bang,
I get endometriosis.

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Dreadsexual

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Dreadsexual is an esmosexuality defined as "a sexual orientation that fluctuates from feeling no sexual attraction to feeling sexual attraction. When sexual attraction is felt, it is usually accompanied by a strong feeling of dread or anxiety."1

History of the term

Dreadsexual was coined before August 8, 2014 by irredeemablegoety via MOGAI-Archive.2 The flag was created on or before September 26, 2016 by unknown. It was posted on that date by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.3

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Every time I’m attracted,
I feel a sense of dread;
I don’t need to see a therapist;
let me be victimized instead!

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Elephanillic

Elephanillic is a gastrogender defined as "a gender that feels immense, but slow-moving and blocky; a sort of nervous or overwhelming gender, named for the elephant and vanilla. It may be somewhat tied to one’s traumatic experiences and the roads thereafter, if applicable.1"

Part of the piñata system of MOGAI genders

History of the term

Elephanillic was coined on January 25, 2020 by tumblr user ferithrophic. There is not yet a flag.2

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