Gatekeeping in the MOGAI Community

For a community supposedly founded on inclusion, there sure are a lot of rules about who can use what term. This section is a collection of terms "for [insert random characteristic here] only."

Aclarus

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Aclarus is a neurogender defined as "the inability to distinguish ones gender due to trauma (any type: emotional, sexual, mental, physical etc) and can only be used by trauma survivors. this is not a gender, only a way to describe the inability to directly pin down what your true gender is.
from the Latin word Clarus which means clear and the prefix A- to imply absence"1

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History of the term

Aclarus was coined on October 8, 2018 by tumblr user bfpd. The flag was created at the same time.2

ADHDnurix

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ADHDnurix is a neurogender defined as "a gender caused by both the Attention Deficit and the Hyperactivity of ADHD.
It has the same effect on gender as executive dysfunction has on life. It’s like the gender is hidden behind your brain fog. You can see it, you know it’s there, but you can’t get to it no matter what you do. This gender is the same feeling as the Leg Bounce. It’s part of the subconscious.
Can only be used by people with ADHD."1

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History of the term

ADHDnurix was coined on July 4, 2019 by tumblr user craftgender (aka term-hoarder). The flag was created at the same time.2

ADnurix

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ADnurix is a neurogender defined as "a gender that is caused by the Attention Deficit in ADHD.
This gender is basically “Executive Dysfunction: Gender Edition”. It’s somewhere in the brain fog. You just don’t know where it is just yet. The gender was just here a second ago, I’ll find it, I swear.
This term can only be used by people with ADHD"1

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History of the term

ADnurix was coined on July 4, 2019 by tumblr user craftgender (aka term-hoarder). The flag was created at the same time.2

Affectugender

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Affectugender is a neurogender defined as "from the latin affectus (to feel). a gender that is affected by one’s neurodivergency especially fluctuating moods, e.g. feeling like a boy during depressive episodes and feeling more like a demigirl during happy episodes
note:for people with mood disorders and personality disorders only."1

History of the term

Affectugender was coined on or before September 28, 2014 by tumblr user joysooyoungs.2 The flag was created on September 4, 2015 by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.3

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They say I’m always angry,
that I’ll mellow out someday,
but I cannot help my mood swings–
that makes my nastiness ok.

I’m too deep in hating all
the cishet normie scum
to admit that I’m cis too,
and that affectugender’s dumb.

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Agitaromantic

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Agitaromantic (/-sexual/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "a romantic orientation revolving around feeling romantic attraction, but due to trauma involving a past break-up, the user is terrified of entering a relationship.
this romantic orientation is only reclaimable by trauma survivors. do not use this/identify with this if you do not have trauma relating to a relationship’s break-up."1

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History of the term

Agitaromantic was coined on December 13, 2018 by tumblr user nebularomantic. The flag was created at the same time.2

Algiagender

Algiagender is a neurogender defined as "having a gender which changes depending on your pain levels or type of pain you're feeling. Only for those with chronic pain."1

History of the term

Algiagender was coined before September 15, 20162 by patelroswell (AKA pastelmemer).3 There is no flag.

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I stubbed my toe this morning
and though it hurt like hell
I changed gender for a second–
dunno what to, but I could tell.

So I’m going ‘round and punching stuff
so that my gender shifts–
I’d rather have ongoing pain
than to be stuck as cis.

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Altsexual

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Altsexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "When your orientation fluctuates because of your Alters orientations: ie when your polysexual with a preference for feminine people but a lot of your Alters like men and are influencing you to like men more. For DID/OSDD/DDNOS Systems."1

History of the term

Altsexual was coined on July 9, 20152 by tumblr user theinsidesystem. The flags were created at the same time.3

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I honestly have DID,
I checked on WebMD,
and my alters’ sexualities
influence my own ID.

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Amphisexual

Amphisexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "(amphi=Greek root for both) attraction only towards those with the same or similar mental illnesses/neurodivergences as you do.
note: only for neurodivergent people."1

History of the term

Amphisexual was coined on or before August 5, 2014 by tumblr user violetmcdaniels via MOGAI-Archive2 There is no flag.

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I’m only into people with
my same self-diagnoses;
I have new disorders every week,
new syndromes and neuroses.

If you’re into me, the only way
that I’ll be into you
is if you diagnose yourself
with all my problems, too.

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Angeligender

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the colors are based off colors of different angels in the Bible who’s Thing relates to gender. White is Gabriel’s color and he’s the angel of revelation, blue is Micheal’s color who’s the big guy basically and the pink is for the angel of good relationships mixed with a reddish color for Uriel the angel of wisdom and then I chose more saturated ones of each color for the idea of “Masculinity and femininity” with white in the middle as a sort of neither

Angeligender is a kingender defined as "an angel gender, a gender found only among angels that is hard to describe to non-angels, gender can be replaced with boy, girl, or nb as in saying that that is the closest human gender you identify with
note: only to used by angelkin or godkin."1

History of the term

Angeligender was coined on or before July 17, 2014 by tumblr user siirusblack. The first flag was created on the same date by Pridearchive.2 The second flag was created on August 12, 2018 by system-mogai.3

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I’m mommy’s little angel,
I’m above the scurryings of men,
and given this, it’s plain to see
that I’m an angelkin.

Mortals cannot grasp my gender,
so you’d best not even try–
angeligender is reserved
for us beings of the sky..

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Angeligender
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My gender is angelic,
how dare you laugh and chortle?!
Don’t call me narcissistic,
you lowly cishet mortal.

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Angreprobic

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The yellows represent the strength that the gender once held, the dark grey showing the sudden fall into darkness and hurt, and the lighter greys represent recovery and healing!

Angreprobic is a neurogender defined as "a gender that feels like it was once something holy, strong, and powerful, but collapsed and fell into darkness due to trauma or stress. May or may not hold religious tones! It can never grow back to its former glory, but it can return to some minor strength.
Exclusive to people with PTSD/anxiety/similar, but also moreso centered towards people with such that use religion as a coping mechanism (NOT as a reason to attack/hurt/hate other people)! The word comes from the Latin words “angelus” (angel) and “reprobi” (fallen)."1

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History of the term

Angreprobic was coined on April 27, 2019 by tumblr user bey-your-self. The flag was created at the same time.2

Anorexgender

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Anorexgender is a neurogender defined as "when one's gender is affected by anorexia, e.g. the disorder has changed how they view their gender and sex/body image dysphoria."1

History of the term

Anorexgender was coined on or before June 7, 2018 by unknown. The flag was created by tumblr blog Beyond-Mogai-Pride-Flags and posted on that date by Pride-Flags on Deviantart2

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I’ve got anorexia–
I diagnosed myself
because I gain social status
by whoring out my health.

And since I appropriated that
and no one called me out,
I’ll make anorexia my gender, too,
and nobody will doubt.

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Antibinary

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Color meanings: It’s in direct opposition of the western binary, so it was made with colors to avoid using those associated with the binary (pink/red for women, blue for men, and purple for both).

Antibinary is a POCgender defined as "a gender identity that is in direct opposition to or unaffiliated with the western gender binary.
A POC-specific identity."1

History of the term

Antibinary was coined before February 19, 20172 by unknown.3 There is no flag.

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Colonizing Western fucks
are the sole creators
of binary gender systems
enforced by white dictators.

But all non-white cultures
are accepting to a T;
I have the moral high ground:
I’m antibinary.

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