Love Relationship Based Genders

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Affecgender

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Affecgender is a Relationship-Based Gender defined as "where your gender changes when you receive affection."1

History of the term

Affecgender was coined on July 1, 2018 by tumblr user yea-i-lift .2 The first flag was created on or before August 18, 20193. The second flag was created on October 9, 20194. They were both made by tumblr user pens-mogai (aka mogai-loaf).

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Affecgender
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Here’s another label for
the “not how it works” collection:
my gender always changes
when I receive affection.

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Amaregender

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Amaregender is a Relationship-Based Gender defined as "a gender that changes depending on who you’re in love with"1

It was coined at the same time as amicagender.

History of the term

Amaregender was coined on or before August 20, 2014 by transmomoi via MOGAI-Archive.2 The flag was created on September 9, 2015 by Pride-Flags on Deviant-Art.3

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Amare- and Amicagender
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I.
Come and sit beside me, love,
my ears to serenade,
and I’ll say I’m whatever gender’s
most likely to get me laid.

II.
I’m so glad that we are friends,
and I know that you agree,
I mean, I don’t really like you much,
but you bring out the girl in me.

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Amigender

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Amigender is a Relationship-Based Gender defined as "a gender that can be fit to be loved by the individual and they sometimes feel more in touch with a certain gender. Does NOT depend on an individual's assigned gender. Slightly different than nonpuella/nonpuer in the way that someone may be assigned female/male and they dont consider themself that gender but they like to present that way. It's also very changeable since the whole gender revolves around the user loving it (like someone could be a glassgender amigirl bc they love how it suits them at that time)

Also can be used as…

Amiboy: an individual who doesn't consider themself male (even if theyre born male or not) but feels more in touch with masculinity.
Amigirl: an individual who doesn't consider themself female (even if theyre born female or not) but feels more in touch with femininity.
Amifluid: an individual who may not consider themself male/female (no matter what their birth gender is) but switches from being more in touch with femininity or masculinity or something else.
Amivac: an individual who is amigender but doesn't wish to specify what they are more in touch with or isn't in touch with anything.
(amivac is mainly used as a modifier, like an amivac demiboy. Amiboy/girl/fluid can all be used as modifiers too).

Ami means love/like/liking.
Vac means empty."1

History of the term

Amigender was coined on or before December 22, 2016 by buntao on deviant-art.2 The flags were created at the same time. [3][4][5][6][7]

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Amigender
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My gender’s customizable,
how are you guys not miserable
without a gender that can be fit
to be loved by the individual?

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Amorgender

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Yellow: Platonic bond
Blue & White: Spiritual Bond
Pink: Femininity
And the Two Rings represent a connection/bond

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Yellow: Platonic bond
Blue & White: Spiritual Bond
Blue: Masculinity
And the Two Rings represent a connection/bond

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Yellow: Platonic bond
Blue & White: Spiritual Bond
Purple: Nonbinary
And the Two Rings represent a connection/bond

Amorgender is a Personalitygender/Esmogender defined as "a gender that can be fit to be loved by the individual and they sometimes feel more in touch with a certain gender. Does NOT depend on an individual's assigned gender. Slightly different than nonpuella/nonpuer in the way that someone may be assigned female/male and they dont consider themself that gender but they like to present that way. It's also very changeable since the whole gender revolves around the user loving it (like someone could be a glassgender amigirl bc they love how it suits them at that time)"1

Amorgender/Erogender/Filkogender

Amorgender/Erogender, or Filkogender (when regarding QPRs): when your gender changes whilst in the presence of an individual to whom you have developed a deep connection for. This could be a romantic attraction, platonic connection, a spiritual affinity or anything similar. For example: An amorboy would identify as male only to someone they felt connected too.
The prefix for this term comes from the Latin “amare” meaning “to love” Erogender (from eros, the greek god of love).
Alternative name for (queer)platonic version: filikogender, from filikós, greek for friendly."2

History of the term

Amorgender was coined on or before July 18, 2014 by tumblr user crowborn.3 The flags were created at the same time.

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Amorgender
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My feelings for you are very deep,
this cannot be debated;
It’s the supreme mark of love
to have your gender imitated

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Copygender

Copygender is a Relationship-Based Gender defined as "a fluid gender identity that mimics the gender of someone the person has strong feelings for."1

History of the term

Copygender was coined on or before January 7th, 2016 by unknown.2 There is no flag.

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I’m a human Ditto,
I’ve no gender of my own;
if you’ve an uncommon gender,
could you throw me a bone?

Those legendary genders
are all the rage this fall,
and as Gender Trainer,
I’ve Gotta Catch ‘Em All!

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Erosgender

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Erosgender is a Relationship-Based Gender defined as "a gender that can be described best by the concept and feeling of love. a warm, soft, and affectionate gender characterized by eros."1

History of the term

Erosgender was coined on January 13, 2018 by nonbinaryneon. The flag was created at the same time.2

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Erosgender
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I made a tiny error—
these sorts of things just happen—
I didn’t check connotations
when I googled up the Latin.
Eros is not love, it’s lust;
if I’d researched, I’d be aware,
but, then, I’m a tucute,
so I probably wouldn’t care.

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Fionagender

Fionagender is a Relationship-Based Gender defined as "when your gender only becomes truly fixed when you fall in love."1

History of the term

Fionagender was coined on or before October 28, 2014 by an anonymous submitter to MOGAI-Archive.2 While this was almost certainly a troll submission, the MOGAI community's lack of self-reflection caused it to be published on a major MOGAI blog.

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I was born a princess years ago
in a land far, far away,
and burdened with a fearful curse
that struck at sunset every day.

Only with true love’s first kiss
could my gender take steady form–
but then I’d be forever stuck
as a slave to gender norms.

Many stories have been penned
about breaking curses with a kiss,
for me, that’d be the worst curse of all–
because then I would be cis.

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Loveflux

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Loveflux is a Relationship-Based Gender defined as "a gender that grows in intensity when you’re in love and/or around someone you love."1

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History of the term

Loveflux was coined on February 19, 2019 by tumblr user nebularomantic. The flag was created at the same time.2

Lovegender

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"I chose pinks and light red because they are colors associated with love."

Lovegender is a Relationship-Based Gender defined as "your gender is defined by love for other gendered people who are treated badly, and a love for your own gender as well."1

History of the term

Lovegender was coined on or before September 27, 20142 by pastelmemer via MOGAI-Archive.3 The flag was posted on August 29, 2015 by helkie-three on Deviantart.4

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My gender’s false compassion
I won SJW of the year
I am kawaii and cutesy
and completely insincere.

I don’t give a damn about
the oppressed–I just like blame–
if I cared, I wouldn’t treat
gender like a game.

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Orgagender

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Orgagender is a Relationship-Based Gender defined as "a gender strongly associated with, or with strong ties to, passion/sex"1

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History of the term

Orgagender was coined on November 2, 2018 by tumblr user mogainfriends. The flag was created at the same time.2

Romantogender

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The heart represents the relationship and the colors are the romantic feelings. The fading of the colors represents the gender fading away when not in the relationship.

Romantogender is a Relationship-Based Gender defined as "a gender defined by only existing in a romantic relationship."1

History of the term

Romantogender was coined on July 15, 20162 by pride-for-everyone. The flag was created at the same time.3

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I can’t believe you would say
that my identity relies
on being in a relationship,
oh my god, you guys!

I have always been like this,
and will always be;
how can you invalidate
my gender identity?!

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Sentigender

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Sentigender is a Relationship-Based Gender defined as "a gender that is only felt in the absence of a sexual/romantic partner (note: only to be used by female-attracted persons)
from the latin term “sentire” meaning “feel”"1

History of the term

Sentigender was coined on or before April 20, 2015 by shiny-bean.2 Though Shiny-Bean was openly trolling3 , the flag made it onto pretty much every major MOGAI blog and list as its own term or as a synonym for emotugender. It is still circulating today. The flag was created on June 15, 2016 by Valeweaver on Deviantart.4

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Sentigender
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Yeah, maybe you’re single,
but check the gender details:
You can’t use this gender term
unless you’re into females.

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