Neurogender Flag
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Here’s what the flag colours mean:
Red, Green, Blue & Purple: The spectrum of different neurotypes and gender identities that neurodivergent individuals have
Black: Aromantic and Asexual spectrums
Infinity Symbol: Neurodiversity

Neurogender is both a standalone MOGAI gender and a category that encompasses all genders that are tied to one’s mental illness. For the purposes of this wiki, the closely-related category Vitiumgender (physical illness) has been included in this section, as well.
This is one of the longest sections, and one of the absolute worst (in terms of genders, though the poems might also be atrocious. Get back to me). I guess it makes sense that it would be so: there’s traditionally a lot of overlap between the self-diagnosis crowd and the MOGAI community. Many if not most have a slew of self-diagnosed (and, to be fair, pro-diagnosed) disorders displayed proudly on their about pages like that tells anyone anything more meaningful than what class of drugs they’re likely to be taking.
Taking advantage of real or fabricated mental health issues for pats on the back: I just don’t feel like this is what people mean when they call for intersectional movements.

Table of Contents

History of the term

Neurogender was coined was coined on or before July 30, 2014 by tumblr user aflutteringlaney via MOGAI-Archive. It is defined as "A gender feeling that is strongly linked to one’s status as neurodivergent
note: obviously, only for use by neurodivergent people; can be used as an umbrella term for other neurodivergent-related genders."1

The flag was created on August 13, 20142 by tumblr user aflutteringlaney.3

List of Terms



404gender is defined as "gender can’t be described or located due to neurodivergence. (all neurodivergent people)
genderwhat: being unable to understand the concept of gender at all because of one’s neurodivergence (all neurodivergent people)"4



ADHDnurix is defined as "a gender caused by both the Attention Deficit and the Hyperactivity of ADHD.
It has the same effect on gender as executive dysfunction has on life. It’s like the gender is hidden behind your brain fog. You can see it, you know it’s there, but you can’t get to it no matter what you do. This gender is the same feeling as the Leg Bounce. It’s part of the subconscious.
Can only be used by people with ADHD."5


ADnurix is defined as "a gender that is caused by the Attention Deficit in ADHD.
This gender is basically “Executive Dysfunction: Gender Edition”. It’s somewhere in the brain fog. You just don’t know where it is just yet. The gender was just here a second ago, I’ll find it, I swear.
This term can only be used by people with ADHD"6


Aerosolgender is defined as "a gender related to mist/particles, specifically related to nonhumanity and dissociation, to feeling like a collection of floating particles rather than a whole. Can also be a gender management related to gender hoarding, where each gender acts as a particle in a whole."7


Aclarus is defined as "the inability to distinguish ones gender due to trauma (any type: emotional, sexual, mental, physical etc) and can only be used by trauma survivors. this is not a gender, only a way to describe the inability to directly pin down what your true gender is.
from the Latin word Clarus which means clear and the prefix A- to imply absence"8


Affectugender is defined as "from the latin affectus (to feel). a gender that is affected by one’s neurodivergency especially fluctuating moods, e.g. feeling like a boy during depressive episodes and feeling more like a demigirl during happy episodes
note:for people with mood disorders and personality disorders only."9


Ageregender is defined as "an umbrella gender term exclusively for age regressors whose gender either entirely, partially or temporarily changes when they regress. ( can be used by both cis and trans ageres)
( not for pet regressors( [the coiner will] make make a term similar under Petregender), kink, ddlg, cgl, non-age regressors or any people who sexualize or appropriate our trauma and stress reactions)"10


Aggelos is defined as "literally meaning “messenger” but in a gender context, it means it’s an angelic gender that presents masculine, feminine, in a softly binary way; but that’s only part of the gender’s presentation. their true gender of the aggelos is that they’re “other” gendered, not male, female, agender, or even neutral, but some other heavenly gender that cannot be described with words.
can be used by anyone, but preferably used by those who are neurodivergent who believe that their delusions of divinity or angelicism [sic] come into play with their conception gender"11


Aimagender is defined as "a gender derived from seeing your own blood in times of injury"12


Aisthesisgender (or Synesgender) is defined as "a gender that is made of sensation or sensations, or is a sensation or sensations. Hence aisthesis being the greek word for 'sensation'. A gender that can be colors, feelings, sounds, or shapes. But, can also be a gender associated with such.
Can be a stand alone term, and one that describes another gender.
Can be used by both synesthetes and non-synesthetes."13


Alcoholicgender (or Alcogender) is defined as "a gender that is influenced by one's alcoholism. A person may identify with one gender when they are under the influence of alcohol, and another gender when they are sober. Should only be used by people with alcoholism."14


Alexigender is defined as "a term for when you are unable to describe your gender/orientation due to neurodivergency - you cannot put it into words. You may have a vague idea of what your gender/orientation is or could be; if so it can be used as alexigenderqueer or alexipan, for example. Alexigender/alexi- can be used in combination with another identity, or it can be a stand-alone.
Based off alexithymia, a condition/symptom where a person has difficulty describing their emotions. For use by people who have alexithymia, which may be part of another disorder such as autism, schizo-spectrum disorders, or borderline personality disorder. See also these similar genders, Gendervauge, & Nesciogender."15


Algiagender is defined as "having a gender which changes depending on your pain levels or type of pain you're feeling. Only for those with chronic pain."16


Aliqudcaer is defined as "a gender only described as opposites to the point of confusion, or stress. Its hard to describe with any other words, and can be related to colors also."17

Aniexe / Anief / Aniem / Anieu

Aniexe / Anief / Aniem / Anieu is defined as "terms for nonhuman headmates in a system who, due to being nonhuman, do not identify with the human idea gender. Instead, they may subscribe to a sort of proximal-gender, where they are a certain gender but without the human ideas and concepts.
An example is a dog who is male, but since they are not human, they do not identify with the human concept of male. Instead, they are male-proximal. This headmate would be aniem."18


Anemiagender is defined as "gender affected by anemia(s)"19


Angegender is defined as "a gender where you can’t describe it with any word but hatred or anger.
Usable only by neurodivergent people with mental illnesses that cause anger or hate."20


Angreprobic is defined as "a gender that feels like it was once something holy, strong, and powerful, but collapsed and fell into darkness due to trauma or stress. May or may not hold religious tones! It can never grow back to its former glory, but it can return to some minor strength.
Exclusive to people with PTSD/anxiety/similar, but also moreso centered towards people with such that use religion as a coping mechanism (NOT as a reason to attack/hurt/hate other people)!"21


Anorexgender is defined as "when one's gender is affected by anorexia, e.g. the disorder has changed how they view their gender and sex/body image dysphoria."22


Anvasi is defined as "an angelic gender for the angel choir Angel…Do NOT Use If Anti Endogenic Systems"23


Anxieflux is defined as "a neurogender for when your anxiegender fluctuates on how much anxiety you are having at the moment."24


Anxiegender is defined as "a gender that is strongly connected to anxiety, or when the more anxious you are, the more likely your gender will change/fluctuate
note: for the use of individuals with anxiety disorders only
pronunciation: ayn-xie-eh-gender"25


Arcvasi is defined as "an angelic gender for the angel choir Archangel…this identity goes along with Seravasi and is apart of the “Angel Choir System” an identity group.
Do NOT Use If Anti Endogenic Systems"26


Autigender (or Auti(s)gender/Autisgender) is defined as "autism as part or whole of gender identity; a gender that can only be understood in context of being autistic.
note: only to be used by autistics."27


Autoaimagender is defined as "gender derived from seeing your own blood in times of self injury"28


Avarumgender is defined as "A gender for a person who feels that, while many terms may be used to describe their gender, they don’t feel like identifying with them may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general. Alternatively, a term for use where many labels may fit, and one’s gender may fit all the criteria for these labels, but the traits are all static and never seem to overwhelm each other.
“Varum” is the nominative, accusative, and vocative neuter case for the word that means “real” or “true.” One can add “a-” at the beginning (possibly) to mean “unreal” or “untrue” if they so wish, because varumgender/avurmgender can sometimes feel “fake” due to technically fitting so many labels. One can do with that as they wish."29



Bigorexgender (or megarexgender, fatorexgender or vigorexgender) is defined as when one’s gender is affected by "bigorexia."30


Bipolargender is defined as "[your] gender is super heavily linked and attached to [your bipolar] disorder"31


Blindgender is defined as "a genderness that is blindness itself; a gender that you cannot see, behold, perceive, observe, understand, touch or find / when you can’t tell/discern if your gender(s) exist or not due to identity invisibility; a gender experience from a blind perspectivity; when you can’t look into your gender because there’s no internal conviction of what is your gender.
See also: invisigender, anongender, abditusgender, jupitergender, cheshiric and camogender."32


Blindnessgender is defined as "a gender for when your perception of gender is affected by either partial or complete blindness.33"


Blurisysgender is defined as "a gender defined by being blurred, hard to recognize, etc. due to blurring of alters in a system."34


Bordergender (or borderfluid) is defined as "a fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on ones identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender we keep questioning because we keep second guessing our sense of selves and, consequentially, our sense of gender.
Can be combined with relevant genders.35"


Borderix is defined as "a gender relating to borderline personality disorder [ bpd ] in some way - this is a gender that feels stronger when the individual has an fp and feels almost nonexistent when without one.
this is, obviously, a gender that can only be reclaimed by people with bpd.

the coiner of this term has bpd."36


Bosgender is defined as "gender that has affinity with cattle, specifically the Texas Longhorn. It is a masculine aligned gender identity, and the flag conveys that with the horns and nostril ring. This is a flag for a gender that an alter in the system experiences, who identifies with the stoic, solitary, dry, harsh lifestyle these beautiful cattle endure.
This flag is specifically for neurodivergent people, designed for someone with Dissociative Identity Disorder."37



Caedgender (or Caedogender) is defined as "a gender which has been “cut away” by a traumatic event. A gender that was once felt but has been damaged or lost due to trauma."38


Calisgenus is defined as "a gender/add on that’s caused by the blurring of Systemhood.
Its blurry.. fuzzy and hard to define. Sometimes you can Pin point it up, but its usually just blurry.
Can become unpleasant and even frustrating at times"39


Chaotigender is defined as "a neurogender exclusively for those with adhd who feel that their adhd directly influences their ability to properly analyze and pinpoint their gender."40


Ceciusgenus is defined as "a nonhuman gender defined by being a fallen angel…This term isn't for anti endogenic or anti non traumagenic systems"41


Cheerbeargender is defined as "a gender only for system children/system littles. it is a nonbinary gender where you are attached to friend bear from care bears and you go back to how happy and carefree, magical and fun their lives were or they want it to be."42


Cheruvasi is defined as "an angelic gender for the angel choir Cherubim…Do NOT Use If Anti Endogenic Systems"43


Cloudgender is defined as "a gender identity that cannot be fully comprehended or experienced because of depersonalization or derealization.44"


Corugender (or Flashgender) is defined as "where your gender changes during (and around) flashbacks. based on the Latin for flash (coruscans)

note: only for neurodivergent people."45


Curagender is defined as "A gender related to or influenced by being a caregiver/carer, specifically to someone who regresses (in age, species, etc). Your gender may change when interacting with your cared one, or your gender may be related to your relationship, for examples.
Just like regressigender, please don’t use this for kink purposes. This is for when you’ve dedicated yourself to helping your loved one(s) cope and be their honest selves with someone they can trust."46


Curatinem is defined as "a gender that was once ripped away due to identity loss from child abuse and/or neglect, and is slowly being pieced back together (along with one’s identity) during the process of healing. Only for Child Abuse and/or Neglect Survivors."47


Cyclothygender is defined as "a neurogender where ones gender is influenced by cyclothymia."48


Cyclogender is defined as "Describes a bipolar person whose gender identity is tied to what type of episode (manic, hypomanic, depressive, mixed, etc.) they are experiencing at that moment."49
Not to be confused with Cyclogender (menstruation)



Daeix is defined as "a demonic gender for members in a system. Its demonic and hellish but also personal to each Daeix being!"50


Decredogender is defined as "a gender influenced by trauma from gaslighting that makes you constantly question it but it still exists."51


Degender (or Virflux) is defined as "When your gender fluxes based on exhaustion or stress; more exhaustion/stress causes one’s gender to decrease in intensity. Similar to virgender, except fluxing."52


Delusogender is defined as "a subset of posigender (a gender identity that is influenced by the positive symptoms of a schizophrenic person) in which one’s gender is influenced by one’s delusions. Strictly for schizophrenic/psychotic/delusional people. This can be a multigender identity if your delusogender is made of multiple genders itself."53


Deusgenus is defined as "a gender for God system members
Its above gender and gender norms
Above masculine and feminine but doesnt mean you cant be masc/fem and deusgenus.
It can be holy and untouched.


Discordian is defined as "a gender that’s chaotic and hard to comprehend or explain. can contain many genders or no gender, but is marked by a sense of confusion or discomfort."55


Dissotine is defined as "a DID exclusive identity for alters who ID as something other than the body’s agab. Intended to replace ‘cisgender’ or 'transgender’ because alters technically don’t have agab! Called disso like cis or trans for short. Dont use if you dont want to, and dont use if you’re not traumagenic and/or don’t have DID/osdd56"


Divigender is defined as "a feeling that one’s gender is split or divided due to a dissociative disorder."57


Dominvasi (or Lorvasi) is defined as "an angelic gender for the angel choir Dominion/Lordships…this identity goes along with Seravasi and is apart of the “Angel Choir System” an identity group.
Do NOT Use If Anti Endogenic Systems"58


Dremegender is defined as "a gender influenced heavily by maladaptive daydreaming.
Can be paired with +boy and +girl (i.e. dremeboy or dremegirl)."59


Drunkorexgender is defined as when one’s gender is "affected by drunkorexia."60


Dusentiros is defined as "a term for when your (gender/species/body/etc) dysphoria fluctuates based on your level of sensory comfort; e.g. having intense body dysphoria when experiencing sensory overload.
not a gender term, but can exist alongside gender. see also: flui.
from dusphoros, the origin of dysphoria (meaning ‘hard to bear’) and sentire, the origin of sensory. pronounced do-sen-tir-ros."61


Dyslexiagender is defined as "a gender that is complex, and has high levels of creativity. For dyslexic people only."62


Dysphoriagender is defined as "when your gender is influenced by your gender dysphoria. This gender can fluctuate or even disappear at times."63



Emetogender is defined as "[you] feel like [you are] different genders when [you] vomit." Related to bulimia.64


Errofluid (or Erroflux) is defined as "a gender which is fluid or fluxes in relation to psychotic symptoms.
Ex: when someone’s psychosis symptoms are strong and having a manic episode I feel genderless, when they’re strong and they’re having a depressive episode they feel more male.
However, the term errogender can be used regardless of how your psychosis affects your gender."65


Escapigender is defined as "1) a gender that changes when experiencing escapism/maladaptive daydreams, or the lack/gain of a gender during. this term can be used as escapi<gender that you feel when youre "gone"> or as a general "yeah im escapigender" (this definition is for people with maladaptive daydream/dissociative disorder or escapism only!). 2) a gender that constantly escapes you and is incomprehensible."66


Etorgender is defined as "a gender that is present at all or the majority of the time but becomes much stronger when age regressed. Do not use if k1nk, this gender is for non-k1nk age regressors and system littles only.
Name comes from Latin retornare, meaning ‘to turn back’."67


Exagender is defined as a "gender that is defined/influenced by whether they believe people will approve of it or not; usually with splitting and is in contrast with actual experience of gender (borderline only)."68


Execudysgender is defined as "a gender that feels difficult to figure out or is a constant work in progress due to executive dysfunction…less ADHD exclusive [than ADnurix], because many people of many neurotypes can feel the effects of executive dysfunction.69"



Fasciflux is defined as "a gender that fluctuates or is fluid based on an autistic person’s special interest"70


Fascigender is defined as "a gender experience largely related to a special interest; note: only for the use of autistic folk."71


Ferusgender (or Beastiaque) is defined as "a feral, rapidly shifting gender that feels more animalistically [sic] dangerous than human-like, and is heavily associated with/influenced by anger and animalistic urges. For use by nonhuman system members/otherkin."72
(Pronounced fair-us-gender / beast-ee-ac)


Fictivegender is defined as "


Fictivegender is defined as "when you are in a DID or OSDD system, and are a fictive, and that affects your gender. Used similarly to kingender, you could use your fictive name as the beginning, for example [the coiner] would be Fazbeargender. Can be used in addition to other genders."73


Fixigender has been coined twice. It was first defined as "hyperfixation based genders! you could also prefix it with your hyperfixation, like space-fixigender, or change the "gender" to another identity like fixigirl!"74 The second coining defined the term as "a fluid gender experienced by those with adhd which can fluctuate or intensify with a hyperfixation. can feel like it fades without a hyperfixation & can also depend on what the hyperfixation is!"75


Fluxodumgender is defined as "a Trauma Based, fluid gender where you don’t/can’t keep the same identity for too long, and you have to change it or else you get uncomfortable/Distressed.
The name comes from the latin words Fluxus (“flow / flowing” ) and Incommodum ( “Discomfort” )"76


Focigender is defined as "a gender identity that is influenced by or shifts with your hyperfixations/obsessions…It was primarily made with ADHD and BPD in mind but it’s free to be used by any neurodivergent person (including self-dxed) who experiences a similar strong focus on things. This includes autistic special interests and also multiply-diagnosed, undiagnosed and questioning people!"77


Foggender is defined as "a gender being mostly or around a certain gender (or mostly around a certain gender), but is only approximate on account of difficulty defining it due to one’s neurodivergence (vaguegender) or brain fog (foggender).
based off of gendervague and genderfog, with similarities to paragender and magigender."78


Fractalgender is defined as "a gender where one’s gender consists of many different patterns, components, or other genders; and its inner complexities can only be understood within the context of being neurodivergent. If a neurotypical person tried to understand it, they would think they’re seeing the same patterns at each layer, hence the “fractal”, when in fact each layer means something different to the neurodivergent person.Meant for use only by neurodivergent people."79
Not to be confused with Poly-Fractal



Genderanxious is defined as "A gender that is undefined because the act of finding a label, or of having a gender, is a trigger for anxiety.
See also: Anxiegender, Imnigender, Kynigender."80


Genderbruised (or Bruisegender) is defined as "a gender that is sensitive and hurts like a bruise whenever you explore the gender. This can be caused by tramua [sic], anxiety, ptsd, ocd, or other related neurodivergencies. Over time the “ bruise ” feeling can heal but it doesn’t always heal."81

Gender Disordered

Gender Disordered is defined as "gender defined/influenced by one’s thought disorders/disorganized thinking, or unable to be defined because of it (people with thought disorder only)."82


Genderdisturbed is defined as " having a gender you don’t define bcause you’re repulsed, frightened, anxious, or disturbed by it."83


Genderfake is defined as "Feeling that your gender is part of your hallucinations or delusions.
For people who experience delusions or hallucinations as part of their mental illness or neurodivergence only."84


Genderfalle (or Falle/Gendertrapped) is defined as "when one is stuck expressing a gender they don’t identify with, forced to be a gender they aren’t, and as a result their connection to their actual gender identity is blurry, hard to find, confusing or is somehow affected. Can also be affected by neurodivergence but the point is that the person can’t express or identify their actual gender because something else (transphobic family, society, negativity, fear, w/e) is forcing them to repress it and be something they aren’t.
Pronounced “falle” like “fall” with “eh” at the end."85
“Falle” is German for ‘trap.’


Genderfog is defined as "a gender that is undefinable due to brainfog or exhaustion
note: for use by neurodivergent/mentally ill/chronically ill people only please."86


Genderfucked is defined as "an identity that involves mental dissociation from ones assigned gender at birth and avoidance of societal definitions of gender. It may involve presenting and identifying in completely different ways than others would expect, ”fucking” with gender while rigid expectations about gender “fuck” with the individual. It is a very chaotic identity that is exclusive to neurodivergent folk."87


Genderincimicus is defined as "a sentiogender which describes a gender experience that cannot be fully felt/comprehended/understood because each time one attempts to mediate on their gender and determine what it does or does not entail/encompass, they feel a great sense of unease or anxiety, they begin to panic, or they become greatly distressed/distraught (including feelings of anger/frustration/despair) over not being able to make the determination. Note that this is not a distress that comes solely from uncertainty, but is a gender experience that necessarily involves an anxious/panicked/distressed sense of one’s own gender. The experiencer is therefore at odds with their gender, and this is the only thing they can know for certain, even if they can approximate what else their gender encompasses.
This is dissimilar to questioning or quoigender because it necessarily entails a dissatisfaction with one’s inability to fully grasp their gender. It is NOT just “IDK my gender” or “my gender is IDK”; it’s “I’m disappointed that I don’t know my gender because some emotional barrier is in the way, but I’d still like a term that describes that experience.”
The name comes from the Latin for adversary/enemy to illustrate how one always feels at odds with their gender due to it being just beyond reach.
This term was made with people with personality and anxiety disorders in mind (of which [the coiner is] both), but anyone who can’t get a grip on their gender due to panic/distress/anxiety can use it."88


Genderkrieg is defined as "When you have multiple gender identities that harshly contradict one another (only for people with personality disorders). (Like being both stratogender (genders are layered) and gendervoid (having no gender) or antiboy and boy)."89


Gendermute is defined as "gender that only makes itself known in safe environments, the kind that you can speak in. (selectively mute only)."90


Gendernimius is defined as "a gender that’s influenced by ones hyperactivity; a hyperactive, uncontrollable gender. only to be used by folx with adhd.91"


Gendernoia is defined as "a gender affected by paranoia. Can be combined with other genders."92


Genderrot is defined as "a gender that is partially or completely “decomposed” by mental illness such as ptsd or dissociative disorders: not to be used by neurotypicals
can be used such as “boyrot” “girlrot” “enbyrot” etc or on its own"93


Genderstim is defined as "for when your gender is *wiggles and bounces happily*"94


Genderwhat is defined as "a gender characterized by both confusion and apathy with regards to either a fluid or stable gender identity."95 It is further defined as "being unable to understand the concept of gender at all because of one’s neurodivergence (all neurodivergent people)."96

Genus Vulneratis

Genus Vulneratis is defined as "latin for "trauma gender". When your gender has been affected and/or partially or wholly molded by abuse-related trauma you've survived/are a victim of.
You can claim this gender if you've experienced abuse-related trauma (sexual assault, domestic violence, child abuse, etc) that you feel has affected your gender in any way! Genus Vulneratis can be used in conjunction with other genders or alignments, or be used as a stand alone gender (almost an alternate to agender, but affected/caused by trauma)."97


Glucic (or Ketic/Glucogender/Ketogender) is defined as "a fluid identity that changes with ones blood sugar levels98"


Grandelusogender is defined as "a subset of delusogender in which one’s gender is influenced by delusions of grandeur."99



Hadengender is defined as "When you feel your gender/genders weaker when depressed. Different from Cavusgender in that your gender/genders doesn’t/don’t change, it just weakens (like it’s fluxing)."100


Half-binary is defined as "gender identity is partially binary and partially nonbinary AND/OR Identifying at least partially as one or both binary genders, yet feeling disconnected from them due to self doubt, or due to neurodivergence making ones gender difficult to understand."101


Hategender is defined as "a gender that you can't describe with any word but hatred or anger. Usable only by neurodivergent people with mental illnesses that cause anger or hate." [102]


HDnurix is defined as "a gender caused by the Hyperactivity aspect of ADHD

This gender got yeeted out with the impulse control a long time ago. There is a faint trace of what it was, but it’s long gone. Trying to figure this gender out causes the same feeling as when you are not allowed to move or stim or whatever you do to try to focus. It’s a legg [sic]/ bounce gender, in other terms.

This term can only be used by people with ADHD."[103]


Histriogender (or Histrionix) is defined as "a gender relating to Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD) in some way. Usually entails a gender that changes in order to please others and/or to become more unique and noticeable. May change very rapidly depending on surroundings and situations.
The coiner of this term has HPD. This gender is exclusive to people who have HPD."[104]


Holidelusogender is defined as "a subset of delusogender in which one’s gender is affected by delusions of being divine, holy, demonic, angelic, or godly." [105]


Honeygender (boy / girl) is defined as "a gender that feels warm and soft, like a blanket, your favorite jacket, or your childhood home, and is childlike in nature. This gender feels comfort in the safety of trusting others and having the innocence of a little kid, with vague hints of masculinity/femininity/androgyny.
This gender is related to hoodiegender and kidcoric, but combining the terms into one. Made for anyone, but coined with trauma victims and people with low functioning autism in mind."106
There is another coining of the term which defines it as "a gender that feels slow and warm, but steady and sweet at the same time. It is also protective and sheltering.”107


Hoodiegender is defined as "a gender that feels safe, expesially [sic] to those with mental illnesses, and comforting. But also can be hiding something “underneath”, or feel mysterious."108


Hopegender is defined as "a gender especially (but not only for) people with depression. It's where your gender strengthens and/or fades due to how much hope you have. It feels very warm and empowering by itself but fades if you lose hope, but can also be used as a modifier i.e if you're autigender and hope gender, you would be autihopegender. I id as this and use hope/hope's/hopeself pronouns."109


Hypernurix is defined as "a gender that is related to your current hyperfixation. Only for people with ADHD"110


Hyporexgender (or Dysrexgender) is defined as when one’s gender is affected by "hyporexia/dysrexia"111


Hystericagender is defined as "when you think of gender, you become hysterical."112



Ignotumgender is efined as "a gender that is defined by confusion, with varying levels of intricacy in the person’s identity and gender. it is closely related to genders such as greygender and cloudgender. this idenity[sic] can be applied because of a lack of sense of self and/or dissociative issues the person has. origins found from the latin phrase found here
term restrictions: no neurotypical use (people without mental health issues), prefered [sic] use by people with personal confusion such as with depersonalization disorders, dissociative disorders, depressive disorders, personality disorders, etc who lack a sense of self or have widened confusion

name class: bastic term, can have add ons such as ‘ignotumflux’ and ‘ignotumfluid’. cannot apply gendered terms such as girl or boy as this is a strictly nonbinary/other classified gender."113


Illusogender was originally defined as "you know you are a certain gender, BBUUUUTT there is still that ‘feeling’ of fakeness there - because of neurodivergency and/or outward experience (such as parents constantly telling you ‘you just fakin’)- and it is kind of part of that gender experience. It can be used as a standalone thing like illusogender xy or as a contraction (e.g. illusoboy)."114
It was later simplified as "when you know you're a certain gender, but there's still the feeling of 'fakeness' there, either due to neurodivergency and/or due to outside pressure from parents, society, etc. These feelings and/or pressures can be part of the gender experience."115


Imnigender is defined as "a gender defined by anxiety. Not “your gender makes you anxious” so much as “anxiety is your gender”.
note: only to be used by people with anxiety disorders."116


Implagender is defined as "Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt, causing one to search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible. Similar to Xumgender but not exclusive to neurodivergent people."117


Incuix is defined as "Incu - from incubus
ix - cool + ties together with daeix
This identity is meant for members of a system that are an incubus. It’s more on the masculine side of the spectrum, but also hellish, demonic and lustful sometimes. Tho, it’s all personal to each Incuix being…Do NOT Use If Anti Endogenic Systems"118


Inersgender is defined as "a term used to describe those who are too lazy/apathetic to care about their gender. The prefix of this gender, iners, is latin for lazy, and because that has negative connotations, anvisgender is a nice alternative for individuals to use.
The prefix for this word comes from the Latin word “iners” meaning “lazy”."119


Insomniagender is defined as "a gender affected by how much sleep you have gotten. Based on the word insomnia."120



Kunigender is defined as "a gender that could be defined as cruel or obstructed due to trauma, a gender that changes based on the situation.
From the Greek kunikos, meaning doglike or cynical."121


Kynigender is defined as "when you feel like you’re figuring out your gender, but then you get confused about it due to the anxiety/stress it causes you and have to start all over again
note: this gender is only for people with anxiety disorders."122



Lazuligender is defined as "a gender that has changed to heal from trauma, especially that which has been repressed. Specific to those who have gone through something traumatic (I made it with abuse survivors such as myself in mind, but it could probably apply to non-abuse survivors who went through something traumatic). Based off the lapis lazuli gemstone, which is associated with healing."123


Lipsigender is defined as "a gender which, when thought about, triggers bouts of depression."124


Lithigender is defined as "a gender that feels more intense or prevalent during manic episodes and less intense or prevalent during depressive episodes but does not change otherwise. This gender is not fluid, only it’s intensity or prevalence changes. A term reserved for those with bipolar disorder. The name comes from “lithium” which is often used to treat symptoms of bipolar disorder."125


Ludogender is defined as "for neurodivergent people who tend to mirror other people because they’re brainweird. when your core gender stays the same but sometimes you “try on” different genders because you are mirroring someone.
note: for neurodivergent people only"126



Magentagender is defined as "a gender that doesnt exist because you dont exist! even though you can see it and logically you know that it is there, it still doesnt exist. 
(for psychotic people/people who experience delusions)"127


Masogender is defined as "a gender where you feel connected to pain/humiliation twords yourself Unlike masochism this isn't sexual in nature."128


Minehypic is defined as "a gender that is connected to Minecraft in a way that cannot be worded. Mine comes from Minecraft, while Hypic comes from Minecraft being a hyperfixation of [the coiner] for years."129


Mistgender is defined as "a gender that feels transparent, and hard to grasp like mist. You know what it is but it’s just barely there, out of your grasp because of trauma, neurodivergency, and/or mental illness.
Can be a modifier to any gender! Mistboy, mistgirl, mistxenic, mistnb, etc!130"


Molebug is defined as "an term representing the opposite of gender, identifying with unreality and dissoconnection [sic] from humanity, and an attachment to an alien-like sense of self. Can be described as surreal, intense, and dreamlike."131


Mollivgender is defined as "a gender when you know you have more identities, but for some reason (like depression) you can’t find the motivation to find them, or they make you question who you are. so you stick with certain labels that work slightly instead of finding the right ones."132


Monstergender is defined as "Someone who has a weak or even no sense of gender with feelings of inhumanity replacing the missing sense of gender identity. Mostly intended for neuroatypicals
monstergirl, monsterboy, monster nonbinary etc."133


Monstrogendervoid is defined as "when you straight up have no gender/are void of gender but the little gender you do feel is inhuman and monstrous.134"


Mortugender is defined as "a gender/gender addition that has strong ties to/relates to death in a deep way, or a gender that is influenced by Cotard’s syndrome. The prefix mortu- is added on to a gender term when said gender becomes stronger in the presence or feeling of death/being dead. Coined with people, like me, with Cotard’s syndrome in mind, but can be used by anyone."135



Narkissigender (or Narkissisgender) is defined as " an egotistical gender, viewing itself in a high position and wanting and/or needing praise. should only be used by those who have narcissistic personality disorder. gender can be replaced with fluid, boy, girl, xirl, boi, nonbinary, enby, nb, etc.
derived from the greek word ναρκισσιστική"136


Nebbiagender is defined as "(neb-ee-ah-gen-der)
A neurogender term describing the experience of not knowing/understanding your gender identity due to fatigue, brain fog, or dissociation. Can be feminine, masculine, or androgyne aligned (ex. nebbiagirl, nebbiaboy, nebbiaenby etc)."137


Nebgender (or Nebulic) is defined as "similar to quoigender, a gender where one is unable to pinpoint their exact gender, or is unable to understand gender, due to some sort of neurodivergency…the neb(ula) prefix comes from the latin word nebulous, meaning clouded or unclear."138


Negagender is defined as "gender is defined/influenced by negative symptoms of schizophrenia (schizophrenic spectrum people only)."139


Nesciōgender is defined as " a term for neurodivergent people who have difficulty grasping the concept of gender. these individuals can combine nesciōgender with another identity that they think may fit (i.e., nesciōgendervoid). from latin nesciō ((i) do not know)."140


Nōlōgender is defined as "a term for neurodivergent people who have difficulty grasping the concept of gender. distinct from nesciōgender in that the individual has no particular desire to investigate their gender, as doing so is overly difficult due to their inability to understand the concept of gender. from latin nōlō, ((i) do not want)."141


-Nurix is defined as "for fluctuating neurogenders. Examples are ADHDnurix, ADnurix, and HDnurix.
Nurix is used when the identity stays still because it is connected to a mental illness, but the strength of it is fluid."142


Noungender is defined as "a gender thats best described by a noun, particularly good for synasthetic people. eg: seagender, a gender best described by the sea. very flexible and personable."143


Nubesvagum is defined as "a gender that is very vague, like the weather during a cloudy day. it can be caused by any neurodivergency or any outside forces.144"



Objectumgender is defined as "a gender relating to or influenced by an autistic person’s special object(s). (Based on the latin word for “object”)"145


Obligender is defined as "a gender that is defined by having a partial connection to your AGAB [Assigned Gender At Birth] because of coercion or abuse, as well as the presence of gender uncertainty. From obligation + gender. Similar to demigender. A person who identifies as obligender may use the terms oblimasculine or oblifeminine to describe themselves if they feel comfortable doing so."146


Oblivigender is defined as "a type of agender, for people who can’t understand gender as a whole. this can be linked to being neurodivergent, but doesn’t have to be. for people who don’t understand what it means to be any gender, or what gender is in general, so the person chooses agender as a label."147


OC-Gender (subdivided into O-Gender and C-Gender) is defined as "A set of gender identities that are heavily influenced or defined by one’s OCD. The variations describe a feeling that one’s gender is influenced or defined by obsessions only (O-Gender), by compulsions only (C-Gender), or by both obsessions and compulsions (OC-Gender)."148


Ontfille is defined as "when one has a difficulty identifying with a fem-aligned or fully female gender due to trauma. can be trauma associated with ones femininity or not.
From the French words “ont”, meaning hurt, and “fille” meaning girl.149"


Opositum (or Oposigender/Oposigenus/Opositur) is defined as "a gender for merged headmates with opposing genders150"


Orthorexgender is defined as "when one’s gender is affected by orthorexia."151


Osaeic is


Outergender is defined as "a gender characterized by dysphoria, alienation and feeling wrong, different from everyone else. Fluctuates in clarity and definition. May accompany C-PTSD.
(this gender could change/resolve with treatment/therapy)"152



Panicgender is defined as "a gender that changes around panic attacks."153


Paradelusogender is defined as "a subset of delusogender in which one’s gender is influenced by paranoid delusions."154


Paradnurix is defined as "a gender that comes from both Paranoia and ADHD. Parad is a combination of paranoia (para) and ADHD (ad), and nurix is a pre-existing suffix."155


Paramegender is defined as "a gender that is affected by one’s daydreams and the events that occur in one’s paracosms. more specifically by the way your parame(s)/paraself(paraselves) manifest. to be used by maladaptive daydreamers."156"Paramegender is specifically about your PARAMES and PARASELVES. Your gender feels differently because of how you perceive yourself in your paracosms, and whose eyes you’re looking through.
It could be something like being a demiboy and feeling your masculine part of your gender because your paraself or parames are more often male or masculine in some way (like my situation), or it could be something like feeling different genders based on which parames you’re daydreaming more about, or even feeling a gender specifically ONLY when you’re having a daydream in the eyes of someone of that gender, or even feeling all of the genders of your parames collectively, or having them run through a cycle.
If you want to make it more specific, you may also do that! If you prefer parameboy, paramegirl, paramenonbinary, parameagender, or something of that nature, then go ahead and use that."157


Parorexgender (or Hyperorexgender) is defined as when one’s gender is affected by "parorexia/hyperorexia."158


Passivsysgender is defined as "a gender defined by being affected by passive influence of other alters in a system."159


Paragender is defined as "a gender for identifying as your para [Maladaptive Daydreaming Disorder-Specific]."160 Not to be confused with Paragender.


Pendogender is defined as "never being satisfied with your gender or feeling settled no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits even better. Gender perfectionism. The “gender” part can be replaced by the closest fitting gender at any time, ie pendojuxera/pendo-agender.
For neurodivergent folks only, coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind."161


PluralQueer is defined as "when you’re plural, and queer"162


Plurisgenus is defined as "plurality Gender…A gender that is complicated and influenced by being plural…A gender that a sum of all the genders within the plural…Basically a gender that is for and by a plural…This term isn’t for anti endogenic or anti non traumagenic systems"163


Polarian (or Polargender) is defined as "a gender for a bipolar person whose gender changes depending on what type of episode they’re experiencing . this is a gender that can only be reclaimed by people with forms of bipolar disorder."164


Posigender is defined as "gender is defined/influenced by positive symptoms of schizophrenia (schizophrenic spectrum people only)."165


Povasi (or Authorvasi) is defined as "an angelic gender for the angel choir Powers/Authorities…this identity goes along with Seravasi and is apart of the “Angel Choir System” an identity group. Do NOT Use If Anti Endogenic Systems"166


Primoid is defined as "a gender influenced by being an android or android-like. (only for members of a system)…anti endogenic systems Do NOT use167"


Prismgender is defined as "[your] experience of gender is heavily influenced by [your] adhd.
[you] impulsively change [your] gender expression as well as the way [you] view [yourself], depending on whatever [you're] currently SUDDENLY LIKING A LOT on or just on a whim because [you're] bored.
when [you] feel comfortable with something, [you] always get fed up after a while and need a change…once [you] decide on a label to use for [yourself], [you've] probably already changed and it doesn’t fit anymore.
but at the same time [you] do not experience this as actually shifting [your] gender, like…for example genderfluidity. [you are] always the same gender, that means that the frequent changes, the adaptability to [your] mood and [your] hyperfixations, the impulsive decisions, and the inability to settle for something ARE [your] gender."168


Privasi is defined as "an angelic gender for the angel choir Principalitie…this identity goes along with Seravasi and is apart of the “Angel Choir System” an identity group. Do NOT Use If Anti Endogenic Systems"169


Prosogender is defined as "a label for when you are unable to recognise your gender(s). You may or may not be able to recognise other people’s genders, and you may or may not be able to recognise certain parts of your gender(s). This label functions as both a standalone gender and a placeholder. Based off the neurodivergent condition of Prosopagnosia, a.k.a face blindness (though this gender is not limited to those with Prosopagnosia)."170


Psychogender is defined as "a gender that can only be understood in the context of a psychotic disorder."171
It was re-coined as "a gender that feels inconsistent, is hard to make sense off, feels disordered, or disconnected from reality as a result of a psychotic disorder"172


Psychorexgender (or Schizorexgender) is defined as when one’s gender is affected by "psychorexia/schizorexia. [these terms seem only to exist on tumblr, twitter, and other non-medical sites]"173


Psysiogender is defined as "a gender identity closely associated with the physical body one inhabits."174


Pyrexgender is defined as "when one’s gender is affected by pyrexia."175



Quoibinary is defined as "finding the concept of the gender binary to be confusing, inaccessible, or inapplicable to you. Similar to quoigender."176



Regregender is defined as "a gender that’s hard to differentiate/figure out due to being an age regressor."177


Regressgender (or Regressusgender, Regressigender) is defined as "A gender that is only present during age regression."178


Rencgender is defined as "a gender that confuses and infuriates the person whose gender it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits."179


Reprigender is defined as "a gender based on forced repression of the self.
NOTE: reprigender should only be used by those forced to pretend they were someone they were not through trauma and abuse.180"


Rouene (or Rouegender) is defined as "when you have multiple genders due to being neurodivergent.

  • Someone who has BPD and splits on their gender, becoming or identifying more strongly with another gender. They may still identify with their old gender, but since they’ve split on it they don’t want to be that gender anymore, though they may go back to it later.
  • Someone who is autistic and their special interest is gender(s), and they ‘collect’ genders, possibly due to being fascigender (a gender influenced by special interests).
  • Someone who, due to neurodivergency, has difficulty making decisions (e.g, autism, ADHD, DPD), and therefore can’t ‘decide’ what gender they are (i.e, can’t pinpoint it).
  • Someone who simply feels like their multigender-ness stems from being neurodivergent.

Pronounced roo-en-ee / roo-eh-gender. From rouen, an anagram of neuro-.181"



Schizic is defined as "a term for when your gender/sexuality is “odd or unusual” and hard to comprehend to others, due to being on the schizo spectrum. It can also be added to another term, for instance, schizicgay."182


Scopogender is defined as "a gender affected of being seen or stared at by others. Based on scopophobia and inspired by condemnation looks."183


Self-Masochisogender is defined as "a gender derived from the shift in emotion during times of self injury of any form that results in release, pleasure or satisfaction. This is only when your gender intensifies from self mutilation or damage, not from another. It counts for demon-kin who feel hatred from homicidal thoughts. Because it counts as hurting!"184


Seravasi is defined as "an angelic gender, meant for nonhuman headmates of an angelic species.
Specifically of the Seraph type, but any angelic being is free to use it
Behind The Name:
Vasi is base in greeks, like gender is a base
Sera comes from “seraph” a type of angel"185


Shadowgender is defined as "gender that is secondary to or separated from a person, but nonetheless existent/important (may be dissociative)"186


Stebaonic is defined as "can be a gender in itself or a description for your gender. stebaonic is when you have either adhd or are autistic and your hyperfixations / special interests affect how you experience your gender."187
Similar to fixigender.


Simogender is defined as "a term for the body which means “having multiple genders due to being a system, referring to two or more members having different gender(s)"188


Simulaeus is defined as "a gender who’s perception is hindered by the fact that the person is not real; A gender related to the fact that one is living a simulated life
Made for People who Disassociate, Deal with Derealization/Depersonalization, and Nonhumans"189


Skhizeingender is defined as "a gender that is strongly connected to schizophrenia, or having a gender that is difficult to describe or communicate because of being schizophrenic.
only to be used by individuals with schizophrenia or schizophrenia related symptoms."
pronounced: sk-heez-ein-gender190


Stimgender is defined as "a gender felt primarily when stimming"191


Stressflux is defined as "a gender where the intensity of your gender changes depending on your stress levels! For example when you’re at home and calm your agender but as you get stressed your gender becomes stronger!"192


Succuix is defined as "Succu - From Succubus
ix - cool + ties with Daeix
This identity is meant for members of a system that are a succubus. It’s more on the feminine side of the spectrum, but also hellish, demonic and lustful sometimes. Tho, it’s all personal to each succuix being.
Do NOT Use If Anti Endogenic Systems"193


Superigender is defined as "when your gender/presentation is influenced by your superiors. Could be youre trying to be like them, trying to impress them, or whatever else
Only for people with npd"194


Synesthegender is defined as "when one’s perception of gender is affected by their synesthesia. This could be their own gender, or gender in general…Synesthesia is most commonly known to combine senses, for example allowing someone to hear colors, but it can also affect preception [sic] of concepts and symbols such as letters, units of time, and genders."195


Systemgender is defined as "A gender which is defined as a sum of all the genders within a multiple or median system. A nonbinary gender experienced by members of a multiple and/or median system. Other systems can also come up with names. (i.e. headmates all have different nonbinary genders but are looking for something to describe the gender of the system as a whole.) Note: only for those in multiple and/or median systems."196


Systemqueer is defined as "when one or more alters in a system identities as queer/LGBTQ+"197



Tantamian is defined as "a gender so vast and complex that you can only see it in pieces at a time, and due to your constant self doubt and/or issues with your identity you find that the little bit you can see at different times will never be enough and you wanna find an identity that can cover the whole vastness of it"198


Théogender is defined as "a gender that can feel golden and rusty, dark and earthy, or velvety and rich. it has a divine or royal feeling
it is intended for deitykin or deity sys-mates ONLY"199


Throvasi (or Ophavasi) is defined as “an angelic gender for the angel choir Throne/Ophanim…this identity goes along with Seravasi and is apart of the “Angel Choir System” an identity group. Do NOT Use If Anti Endogenic Systems"200


Traumatagender (or Traumatgender/Trautgender/Trauatgender) is defined as "a gender that varies; it can change a lot, it could be unknown, it could just be there, it could be nonexistant, etc. whatever it is, it was based from intense trauma. should only be used by those who have experienced or are going through what they consider intense trauma.
derived from the prefix trauat-"201


Trennian is defined as "a gender caused by or due to dissociation, depersonalization and/or derealization, that is grey and feels like static. It is unknown and abstract, a paradox of both being yours and not yours at the same time, and feels dreamlike but not quite at the same time…the name is from the german word “trennen”, which means “to separate”."202


Trepidary is defined as "a term for when your gender is influenced by the fact that you’re a fictional introject who’s source is horror related.
the term is based on the word trepidation.
this term is only reclaimable for did/osdd systems. do not use if you are not a system member of some kind."203


Tubercugender is defined as "a gender that’s like a burden, or tumor, on you and prevents you from discovering your true self. Exclusive to neurodivergent people…Tuberculum = tumor in Latin"204



Vaeprix is defined as "Fairy/Fae identity for members of a system…Do NOT Use If Anti Endogenic Systems"205


Vaguegender (or Gendervague) is defined as a "term to describe when one’s gender is vague because of their status as being neurodivergent. This gender term is to only be used by neurodivergent/neuroatypical individuals."206


Visigender is defined as "a gender that is best described using images, visual aides etc., as you are unable to put it into words due to neurodivergence. For neurodivergent people only."207


Virtuvasi is defined as "an angelic gender for the angel choir Virtues…this identity goes along with Seravasi and is apart of the “Angel Choir System” an identity group…Do NOT Use If Anti Endogenic Systems"208


Vitiumgender is defined as "a gender that is affected by a person's disability."209



Xumgender is defined as "never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible–to find “the gender” or “the one truth”–though one will never be found due to one’s neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual."210



Zauygender is defined as "a gender which is influenced by the fact that one feels they are not subject to life, do not possess a soul, and/or they do not exist while still being “alive.”"211

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