Relationship-Based-Genders are a subtype of Personality/Esmogender wherein genders rely on one’s relationships with others to determine how, when, or if they manifest.
Textbook cases of lacking self-identity? You betcha.

History of the terms

"Relationship-Based-Gender was coined by MOGAI-Watch for this wiki as a way of trying to categorize MOGAI nonsense.

List of Terms

A

Absorgender

Absorgender is defined as "a gender that is what the genders of those around you are. As you are around more people, even if some leave, they continue to add to the genders you feel. You stay the genders that you have taken in until you hit a max of some sort. At that point you become like a blank slate, being only one gender (it doesn’t have to be agender or neutral, it can be any gender and the base gender can be different each time)."¹

Aduriquiesfluid

Aduriquiesfluid is defined as "your gender can be fluid depending if you’re near a mean person or a kind person and when [you’re] around nobody you’re agender"²

Aetasgender

Aetasgender is defined as "a gender that changes depending on the age of the person being interacted with at that moment. Coined by anonymous for the Latin word for “age”."³

Affecgender

Affecgender is defined as "where your gender changes when you receive affection."⁴

Alterousfluid

Alterousfluid "describes someone whose gender changes to be the same as or similar to the gender(s) they feel alterous attraction to at the moment."⁵

Amaregender

Amaregender is defined as "a gender that changes depending on who you’re in love with"⁶

Amicagender

Amicagender is defined as "a gender that changes depending on which friend you’re with at the moment."⁷

Amigender

Amigender is defined as "a gender that can be fit to be loved by the individual and they sometimes feel more in touch with a certain gender. Does NOT depend on an individual's assigned gender. Slightly different than nonpuella/nonpuer in the way that someone may be assigned female/male and they dont consider themself that gender but they like to present that way. It's also very changeable since the whole gender revolves around the user loving it (like someone could be a glassgender amigirl bc they love how it suits them at that time)"⁸

Amorgender/Erogender/Filkogender

Amorgender/Erogender, or Filkogender (when regarding QPRs): when your gender changes whilst in the presence of an individual to whom you have developed a deep connection for. This could be a romantic attraction, platonic connection, a spiritual affinity or anything similar. For example: An amorboy would identify as male only to someone they felt connected too.
The prefix for this term comes from the Latin “amare” meaning “to love” Erogender (from eros, the greek god of love).
Alternative name for (queer)platonic version: filikogender, from filikós, greek for friendly."⁹

Asthefluid

Asthefluid is defined as "describes someone whose gender changes to be the same as or similar to the gender(s) they’re aesthetically attracted to at the moment."¹⁰

Attrafluid

Attrafluid or attraflexible is defined as
1) "A combination of multiple or all of the above genders (alterousfluid, asthefluid, platofluid, romofluid, sensufluid, sexofluid)
note: the “fluid” part can be replaced with “flux” to signify that your gender fluctuates based on what gender(s) you’re attracted to at the moment.¹¹
Note: these genders are intended for bi/pan/poly individuals whose preferences (if they have any) are fluid but if you feel that your orientation as a whole is fluid then feel free to use them."

2) "(attraction based genders): Someone whose gender changes depending the gender(s) they feel [alterous, aesthetic, platonic, romantic, sensual and/or sexual] attraction to at the moment. A combination of multiple or all of the attractional genders (alterousfluid, asthefluid, platofluid, romofluid, sensufluid, sexofluid, etc.).
Note: these genders are intended for pluralians (bi/poly/ply/omni/multi/pan) individuals whose preferences or frequences are fluid but if you feel that your orientation as a whole is fluid then feel free to use them."¹²

B

Bellatrixfluid

Bellatrixfluid is defined as "fluid between erotogenders"¹³

C

Chamgender

Chamgender is defined as "your gender identity changes to match the gender or perceived gender of whomever you’re with at the time."¹⁴

Clucklic

Clucklic is defined as "a bouncy, fluttery gender, named for chickens and chuckles, that is somehow tied to the strength of one’s platonic relationships. It may make other genders stronger when present.¹⁵"

Complaisgender

Complaisgender is defined as "from complaisance = a gender heavily influenced by others; changing to fit the expectations and desires of others.¹⁶"

Copygender

Copygender is defined as "a fluid gender identity that mimics the gender of someone the person has strong feelings for."¹⁷

Countergender

Countergender is defined as "your gender identity changes to balance the gender or perceived gender of whomever you’re with at the time."¹⁸

Currentgender

Currentgender is defined as "a gender that can be influnced [sic] by one’s surroundings or current mindset. Emotions, surroundings, and people, etc. can influence it."¹⁹

E

Echogender

Echogender is defined as "when you have trouble understanding/experiencing gender so you attempt to understand your gender by mimicking the genders of those you are closest to/most often around."²⁰

Eisagender

Eisagender is defined as "a gender that is based solely or mainly on people’s input about your gender.
Ex: someone said you look feminine and you have a feminine gender
Root: greek word for input is anglicized as Eisagogí"²¹

Erosgender

Erosgender/Amansive is defined as "a gender that can be described best by the concept and feeling of love. a warm, soft, and affectionate gender characterized by eros."²²

Erotogender

Erotogender is defined as "A gender or genders that are felt specifically under sexual circumstances, felt specifically in sexual contexts, different to what is generally felt in other contexts and situations. A significant shift in gender/s during sexual situations or context. Someone who identifes as this may feel different gender/s in a sexual context compared to the rest of the time.
They may only experience dysphoria for the specific gender/s during sexual situations, or suddenly no longer experience dysphoria due to gender/s shift. The gender/s of the person’s sexual sense of self is significantly different to their usual gender/s. They may be different gender/s in their sexual fantasies, during sexual activity, or when they experience sexual attraction. It can be any gender or set of genders (culture specific genders are restricted to people of those cultures)."²³

Expecgender

Expecgender Pivotgender, or Swivelgender is defined as "a gender which changes depending on who you are around."²⁴

F

Fionagender

Fionagender is defined as "when your gender only becomes truly fixed when you fall in love."²⁵

Fluoexfluid

Fluoexfluid (flow - ex - fl - oo - id) is defined as "gender fluxes between silexgender and flouegender when referred to by either masculine or feminine terms by others.²⁶"

Flirtgender

Flirtgender (synonyms: amogender, genderamas) is defined as "a gender where your primary interaction with gender feelings is that of flirtiness - either with gender, or people/the outside world."²⁷

Followgender

Followgender is defined as "a gender identity that can be directly changed by a person looked up to, or changes to match theirs."²⁸

G

Genderheart

Genderheart is defined as " your gender is dependant [sic] on your heartbeat! so when you go jogging or smthing [sic] your gender will fluctuate bc ur heartbeat has sped up! and when you see someone u find cute it also speeds up!"²⁹

Genderseductive

Genderseductive (or Gendertempting/Genderousing/Genderhot/Gendersexy) is defined as "a gender that is based around being sexually attractive to others or looking attractive."³⁰

I

Impactgender

Impactgender is defined as "gender defined by the collective impact of everyone else’s genders on a prson [sic]."³¹

Interpretorix

Interpretorix is defined as "a gender where everyone’s assumptions about it could be correct, similar to a single story could have many different interpretations³²"

Intimagender

Intimagender is defined as "a gender relating to passion, intimacy and sex. Can be related to romantic attraction/sexual attraction."³³

Isogender

Isogender is defined as "a gender you’re only comfortable with when by yourself"³⁴

L

Loveflux

Loveflux is defined as "a gender that grows in intensity when you’re in love and/or around someone you love."³⁵

Lovegender

Lovegender is defined as "your gender is defined by love for other gendered people who are treated badly, and a love for your own gender as well."³⁶

M

Mirrorgender

Mirrorgender is defined as "a gender that changes to fit the people youre around"³⁷

O

Orgagender

Orgagender is defined as "a gender strongly associated with, or with strong ties to, passion/sex"³⁸

P

Partnergender

Partnergender is defined as "Similar to Followgender, but can be controlled by both the one with the identity, and who they are following. A sort of partnership sharing/creating the gender."³⁹

Platofluid

Platofluid is defined as "Describes someone whose gender changes to be the same as or similar to the gender(s) they’re platonically attracted to at the moment."⁴⁰

Pulvigender

Pulvigender is defined as "your gender depends on how sexually active you are no matter the partner."⁴¹

R

Romantogender

Romantogender is defined as "a gender defined by only existing in a romantic relationship."⁴²

S

Scioflux

Scioflux is defined as "a term meaning that your gender can change specifically when it is acknowledged by other people (that is, NOT just when you’re around people). not necessarily meaning you switch to the gender you are acknowledged as, though this can be the case…scioflux, due to the nature of being flux, does not necessarily have to be permanent/unchanging. you do not HAVE to change gender EVERY SINGLE TIME your gender is acknowledged to use this term. genderfluidity is weird and it does weird things sometimes. this is just a term to apply to the ‘pattern’ your genderfluidity takes more often than not.⁴³"

Sterofluid

Sterofluid is defined as "a fluid nonbinary identity where you feel more feminine depending on your crush/partner being feminine, or masculine depending on your crush/partner being masculine. Can fit for androgynous, too."⁴⁴

Sexofluid

Sexofluid "describes someone whose gender changes to be the same as or similar to the gender(s) they’re sexually attracted to at the moment."⁴⁵

Sentigender

Sentigender is defined as "a gender that is only felt in the absence of a sexual/romantic partner (note: only to be used by female-attracted persons)
from the latin term “sentire” meaning “feel”"⁴⁶

Sensufluid

Sensufluid "describes someone whose gender changes to be the same as or similar to the gender(s) they’re sensually attracted to at the moment."⁴⁷

Slavegender

Slavegender is defined as "the feeling of helplessness to one gender until it disappears or one stronger than it takes over. Also can be a gender directly influenced by a person of power."⁴⁸